A recent group viewing of the film “Nyad” with my swimmer friends gave us a few takeaways. Sure, Annette Bening’s portrayal of distance swimmer Diana Nyad was incredible – although my friends and I – admittedly – poked some fun at her swimming stroke (who on earth can truly duplicate a champion swimmer’s freestyle?). The REAL takeaway was the friendship between Diana Nyad and her friend, Bonnie Stoll – played by the amazing Jodie Foster.
Jodie Foster and Annette Bening in “Nyad” Courtesy Netflix
This longtime friendship between the two women beat all the odds including a prior broken relationship, childhood sexual trauma, changes in careers, personality conflicts, you name it. Bonnie had spent most of her life putting up with Diana’s inflated ego and unwavering desire to swim from Cuba to Key West, Florida, which she attempted at the age of 28, then a few more times in her early sixties.
We watched as Bonnie seemed to suffer as much emotional and mental endurance from the side of the escort boat as Diana’s physical challenge in the ocean, including surviving numerous stings from jellyfish and a near-fatal incident from a man o’ war. But Bonnie stayed the course, just like Diana did in her final attempt.
Take – as another example – the enduring relationship between rock star Bruce Springsteen and co-musician, actor and author Steven Van Zandt. Little Steven, as he is best known, is the ultimate wingman to Springsteen and the E Street Band. Sure, they’ve shared their own sets of ups and downs, but Van Zandt has been there for the rocker since they were just starting out in the music industry.
Bruce and Little Steven rockin’ away like they’ve done for years
We all should be lucky enough to have “a Bonnie” – or a Little Steven – in our lives. Be it a college roommate you forged a lifelong friendship with, a spouse, a childhood buddy you always connected with – or even your loyal Golden Retriever – like Bear below – a lifelong, best friend can get you through anything.
Sink or Swim 